Showing posts with label Congo Trip. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Congo Trip. Show all posts

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Wednesday


Wednesday Recap



It’s after 9 on Wednesday 8/31 here and though we don’t have any electricity or running water our gracious hosts provided us a generator to run a couple hours a day to charge our computers and gadgets plus a bucket of warm water to bathe with which I just took advantage of (it’s a somewhat complicated process that we don’t need to get into here). Last night I spent writing the tribute to our son and tonight after a full day I have a little time to write a little more about today.



Didier and I had some good conversations last night where I opened up to him and shared some of my feelings and heart to him regarding the loss of my son and some of his story and the story of Joseph and Mark that was posted previously on this blog. He is a tender and sensitive shepherd who I felt bad to make cry and told him this morning I was sorry if I made him sad last night when I started weeping unexpectedly. I told him this morning I want him to have joy in the Lord with me, and that we can be sorrowful yet always rejoicing, not grieving like the rest of the world does who have no hope. Josie helped share the story of Mark Joseph’s name and our family heritage (previous blogs) with Annie on the drive as she speaks mostly French, and she got to see Mark’s American family in a photo album we made for her, a bookmark someone at church made in memory of Mark, and a letter Jaime wrote her thanking her for being such a wonderful mother and not to lose heart. I later got to show Didier the same pictures.


Today we visited the Amani orphanage in town, the place where the Wilmarth’s twins were abandoned. Someday I hope to upload a song the girls at that orphange sang for us. We were blessed to begin to give gifts to the orphanage and Didier’s kids to priceless smiles. I also got to hold baby Marie-Claire / Kivren, who they call “Beni” (blessed) who is blessed to be in the process of adoption for another godly couple.



I was also blessed to get to hold my son’s casket, another one who was blessed “of God” (the meaning of his Swahili name Waleza). It was an honor for me to ride in the back of the van with him, to carry him with Pastor Peter, and to bury him myself. I had written out words to share but they were left behind in the car and God gave me grace to share verbally from the heart at the graveside everything from it I felt was important to share, and to urge any onlookers who didn’t know Christ to trust Him today. I didn’t completely lose it until I said the words at the end “Blessed be the name of the Lord,” with perhaps some of the emotion Job had when he said those words by the grace of God.



Didier and Peter then sang a beautiful song, during which by God’s grace I was able to focus on and comfort Annie more than needing comfort, and beyond my hugs and love, the Good Shepherd of Psalm 23 was there in His amazing mercy. Not only is there peace and comfort, there is a joy set before us. My tears that had washed over the casket earlier in the car were now wiped away by God, and as I knelt to kiss and embrace the son I never got to hold, God’s Son was doing even more for me, to Him be the glory.


                                                  Pastor Peter and Pastor Didier singing


Other Evidences of God’s Mercies Being New This Morning:

-          we woke to beautiful African choral music in their sunrise chapel service some 50 yards away

-          the Scripture I had been meditating on last night, Psalm 139:7-16, was playing on Didier’s car stereo as he turned it on for our ride this morning

-          in the Internet cafĂ©, I noticed a sign above the exit with the words in big letters “God is good all the time.” That certainly proved true today.



It’s nearly midnight now and there’s more to the story but that’s where I must end for now. Please continue to pray … God is working and answering prayers. Pray that Josie and Gabe can get their documents from the embassy very soon (perhaps finalized tomorrow or Friday?). A burden is lifted, and I am ready by God’s grace for what he has for us next to do, in the next page of this chapter. After reading this, I hope you will open your Bible and read Ephesians 3:14-21 and pray for us in light of that passage. There will be more new mercies tomorrow morning (and every morning) from our God of immeasurable love who strengthens the inner man and is able to do exceedingly immeasurably beyond all we ask or think, to Him be the glory.

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

A Dad's Memorial of a Son he Never Knew


My memorial to my son for the graveside service 8-31-2011 in Lubumbashi, Congo



MARK JOSEPH WALEZA LAYTON (5/20/11-8/24/11)



I didn’t realize how much I could love someone I’ve never seen in person or touched physically. But as Christians we understand our greatest love is for someone we’ve never seen or touched physically – the Lord – and His greater live is present here in great ways.



Each part of our son’s name speaks of God’s grace:

LAYTON

-          he had our name on him since right after he was born

-          he never had another family name

-          he never lived in America but touched many lives in America

-          he had the same last name as my great-grandfather Edwin Layton who was a missionary to the Congo in the 1900s

JOSEPH

-          named after young boy in Congo who Edwin Layton knew and who God used in amazing ways in 1900s in the Congo church (see blog post on 8/23 for more of his amazing story, one of the great stories of missions of its time)

-          that young Joseph died in 1907 but “his works live after him” (Edwin Layton’s memoirs), a short life with lasting impact

-          the biblical Joseph in the Old Testament lived on the African continent and had 2 African-born sons that were adopted in Israel

-          the biblical Joseph in the New Testament was the “adoptive” father of Jesus, his legal father, though not biologically (the legal ancestry of Messiah was very important)

MARK

-          we didn’t know this when we chose this name but Mark was the name of another important young man in Congo church history, one of their first native evangelists (Mark Njoji, see pictures below)

WALEZA

-          Congolese name chosen by Didier, the same name of one of his sons I met today, meaning “of God”

-          Waleza was certainly a gift “of God” (Psalm 127:3)

-          Waleza was always in the special care “of God” (Psalm 139:12-15) and His days were ordained “of God” (Psalm 139:16)

-          We share David’s hope that his son was elected to pass into the presence “of God” where we too will go to him someday though he can’t come to me (2 Samuel 12:22-24), basing our hope not in sentimental feelings but on the sovereign grace and goodness “of God” (Romans 5:6, 8:28-32) to helpless ones such as us

-          We lean on the special care of our Savior to little ones, our Savior who said the kingdom “of God” belongs to “such as these” (Mark 10:13-16, which we must realize is a picture of how all of us are spiritually to enter heaven, helpless, hopeless, dependent, unable to do anything to save ourselves)



A BRIEF LIFE BUT A BLESSED LIFE

- Born into this world May 20, 2011 in Lubumbashi

- Brought into the care of Kitumaini Orphanage right away

- Legally adopted by Phil and Jaime Layton on 6/17/11

- He was never an orphan; he was always in a family

- he knew the loving arms of a mother his whole life (some children never have a loving parent, he had several)

            - Annie Mukotshi told us she would care for him as her own son and she did

- he was loved and cared for by Didier and his wife and Annie, their family, Angelique and her daughter Gracia, and the Kitumaini kids and community

- he had parents in America that loved him more than words can tell

- his 2-year-old white brother Adam knew Mark’s name and picture and smiled when he saw it

- his 5-year-old sister Georgia called him “Marky” and one time when daddy came home from work asked “where’s Marky” (wondering why I hadn’t brought him home yet in the time I was at work ;)

- his 7-year-old sister Annalee would have been the best 7-year-old mommy ever

- his 8-year-old sister Ella loved Mark as much as humanly possible for an 8-year-old to love a brother she’d never met

- above all, he was loved by our Heavenly Father, who knows the pain of giving up His Beloved Son (John 3:16), so that all His adopted children (“whosoever believes”) in Christ shall not perish but rather will share God’s life and infinite love eternally



The Lord gives and the Lord takes away. Blessed be the name of the Lord.

                                                     
                                                                        


                                                                            


                                           



Monday, August 29, 2011

What to Expect

Here is a video that Stuart took of the "Guest House" on the compound at Pastor Didiers place.

Gives us a small idea what it will be like for Phil, and a huge reminder of how blessed we are!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8fwlilwWgw&NR=1


Biblical Meditations from Ethiopia and About Ethiopia


We are almost to Africa as I write this and hope to send where I can find internet after arrival. Our flight was rerouted to fly over Spain, Northern Africa, and down over Egypt to Ethiopia, rather than the normal more direct route, as weather did end up delaying our connection to Congo until Tuesday AM (leaving around midnight Monday U.S. time). Our flight path today takes us over and many nations mentioned in the Bible. Tarshish in the Bible most think refers to Spain and possible Carthage in North Africa. Some of the other nations we flew over were mentioned in Genesis 10:13, Ludites were African tribes west of the Nile Delta, the Anamites lived in North Africa west of Egypt near Cyrene, the Lehabites are identified with the Libyans, and the Naphtuhites lived in Lower Egypt (the Nile Delta region, accoring to NET Bible Notes). Seba has also been identified in Africa perhaps near the areas we’re flying over as well. Egypt’s role in Scripture is familiar to many, but not as many are aware of the significance of and statements about Ethiopia in God’s Word. Since I have extra time with our longer layover today, I thought I’d share some things a little later in the post about the nation we are staying in, in relation to God’s Word.

We are among the few Caucasians on this flight to Ethiopia (there is also a mission team of 7 or 8 young Americans going to Zimbabwe I think and another humanitarian team to another nation). There is an African baby in the row behind who is about the age of Mark Joseph and I have to confess today has been a little more emotional then yesterday the closer we get, and it’s painful to know I won’t be bringing our little son with me on this same flight coming home that I see these other cute African kids on. It still seems somewhat surreal and the shock and sadness is still fresh, and undoubtedly waves still to come. But I find comfort from the Lord who is “a Man of sorrows and familiar with grief … surely He has borne our grief and carried our sorrows” (Isaiah 53:3-4). His mercies were new last morning and will be each day (Lamentations 3, Sunday’s blog post). I am strengthened by the prayers of many on earth, and my mighty Advocate interceding at the Father’s right hand in heaven, and the Spirit’s help in weakness and groans too deep for words. By way of practical physical mercies I was able to get at least 4 hours sleep on this flight, I have emergency row exit legroom, and I have the whole row to myself, and the food and service on Ethiopian Air has been outstanding and far better than my domestic experiences, and the airline is also covering all our meals and lodging for our delays.

Ethiopia is a beautiful country and its people are beautiful, marked by beautiful skin, and a beautiful spirit that seems to be about many of them. An Ethiopian man in our hotel was very friendly to us and as I write there is a sweet couple across the aisle in bulkhead seating with 2 little girls aged 2 and 9 months. They are adorable and are doing quite well considering it’s a 14-15 hour flight. The girls have the cutest braids and smiles that cheer my heart and make me smile – I find it hard to believe any person could look at them in the eyes and not burst into smiles. I am playing peekabo with the older one. They have a secure bassinet in that section that fits into the wall as a baby bed … it brings back fond memories (or at least memories :) of a trip Jaime and I took to Germany when Ella was 2 and Annalee was 6-months. As I post this message we are now checked in to a small hotel in Ethiopia complete with leopard comforters on our beds - I feel like I'm really in Africa now! The city reminds me of Manila, Philippines in many ways, where I spent many years, but here there's not as much traffic and heat.

In God’s providence (different than our plans) our longer route will cause us to miss the only connecting flight to Congo Monday so we will spend the night in Ethiopia then fly to Congo Tuesday morning arriving at noon in Lubumbashi to meet Dider. I sent Didier an email from D.C. airport but am hoping he got the message and doesn’t waste Monday driving to the airport but that God will grant Him instead some rest that day before a busy Tuesday and week. We are concerned for Didier’s health and as you read would ask you say a prayer for his continued and complete healing in every way, and also that we would be efficient in getting done what we need to for the adoption of the Wilmarth twins and not be set back. For now God has chosen to allow us to spend more time getting to know another people who are part of His manifold plan of grace – the Ethiopians. They strike me as a very hospitable, honorable, hard-working people … many of the traits I admire about Filipinos seem to be true of Ethiopians in their own way as well.

God’s plan for the people of Ethiopia is stated in His Word in some special and specific ways (did you know 22 verses in the Bible mention these people, depending on which translation you have?). You may not be reading this blog for a Bible study, but I hope you’ll read to the end of this one and say a prayer for this people group that God cares much about and says much about. When the Bible mentions Ethiopia (or the literal Hebrew Cush in some translations), it’s speaking of a nation that included not only modern Ethiopia, but Sudan and perhaps beyond to the south, and alternate names in ancient times included Nubia and Meroe. History from ancient Egypt, Greece, and Rome consistently portray the people from the nation Ethiopia/Cush as black-skinned Africans, as some Scriptures also seem to acknowledge and allude to this trait, which became proverbial.

Jeremiah 13:23 Can the Ethiopian change his skin or the leopard its spots? Neither can you do good who are accustomed to doing evil.

Jeremiah tells the Israelites (and all peoples) that we cannot change our wicked hearts (Jer. 17:9) that are marked by sin, just as a leopard cannot change its external appearance or an Ethiopian his skin, man cannot change his sin, the most notable thing about him. But God looks past the external things that man finds so notable, He looks to the heart (1 Samuel 16:7), and God can change hearts, Jeremiah argues, and Jeremiah in particular highlights how Gentiles, including black Africans are part of God’s plan of grace.

Ethiopia in the family of Faith in OT Times

Many Bible readers don’t know Jeremiah had a friend who was a black-skinned believer in the Lord from the nation called Cush or Ethiopia/Sudan today. Ebed-Melech befriended Jeremiah and saved Jeremiah’s life and God saved this Ethiopian when the Jews of Israel were destroyed (Jeremiah 38:6-13, 39:16-18). Like another famous Ethiopian later, this man was also a court official with significant responsibility, a eunuch, and a believer in the God of Israel when most of Israel rejected God’s Word.

As I mentioned in a sermon a few Sundays ago, Moses married a wife from this same African nation, according to Numbers 12. This seems to be some 40-years after his marriage to his Midianite wife of his youth, who seemingly had died by then. Possibly this Cushite/Ethiopian wife was part of the “mixed multitude” of Africans and other non-Jews that feared God and came out of Egypt with Israel (Exodus 12:37-38) or part of the foreigners who chose to join Israel and her faith, as the Law repeatedly references. In Numbers 12, Miriam and Aaron objected to Moses marrying her and question his leadership, but God affirms this marriage and Moses’ faithfulness in all his household. More than one writer has noted how striking it is that when Miriam criticizes Moses as he marries a black African, that God strikes Miriam white as snow (leprous) in judgment. John Piper develops further the implications of that passage for Christians who oppose so-called interracial marriages or families (as an aside, biblically and scientifically there is no such things as “races” as biologically defined, we are all part of one race, united in Adam, so we should get rid of the largely evolutionary terms “races” or “interracial”).

Moses’ wife was not the only Ethiopian/Cushite in the family of faith in the OT. There is also Ebed-Melech mentioned earlier (Jeremiah 39:16-18) and others from Ethiopia who became converted Jews during the reign of Ahasuerus. Ethiopia was part of the kingdom that Mordecai the Jew was given a prominent role over in Esther 8:7-10, 9:3-4, 10:1-3 and Esther 8:17 suggests that people in lands and provinces including Ethiopia became Jews, and celebrated Jewish feasts (9:28-32). In God’s providence, in a day when Haman wanted to exterminate the Jews, God greatly expanded the Jews (including converted Jews) with people from India to Ethiopia apparently coming to the Jewish faith! Acts 2:4 and 2:10 records nations of Africa that had God-fearing Jews and proselytes (ethnic Africans who had come to the faith of Israel and come under its laws and worship).

Ethiopia in the New Testament

What God was doing in the days of Esther, a book where He’s not mentioned by name, was spreading His name abroad, so that we read many centuries later of God-fearing “Jews and proselytes” from several nations on the continent of Africa (Acts 2:4, 2:10; Libya/Cyrene on North Africa east of Egypt). “Proselytes” included ethnic Africans who had come to the faith of Israel and come under its laws and worship. One of these Africans carried the cross for Jesus (Mark 15:21) and other Africans from the nations in Acts 2:10 were instrumental evangelists in the early church (Acts 11:20) and prophets and teachers (Acts 13:1, one from Cyrene, another named Simeon who was nicknamed “black,” which NET Bible Notes says is a Latin term meaning black in complexion).

As the gospel spreads from Judea to Samaria in the first part of Acts 8, the first representative of “the ends of the earth” (Acts 1:8 commission) who is witnessed to is a man from Ethiopia who “had come to Jerusalem to worship, and he was returning and sitting in his chariot, and was reading the prophet Isaiah” (from the Jewish Scriptures, Acts 8:27-28). A man named Philip (great name by the way :) meets him and explains the gospel. This Ethiopian court official of the queen of Egypt who had perhaps converted to the Jewish faith earlier now converts to faith in Christ in that chapter. Early church tradition says he brought Christianity into Ethiopia where it spread and churches were soon founded. This study has stirred the heart of another Philip for Africa!

Prophecies about greater salvations for Ethiopia in the future?

In Genesis 12:3 God promises Abram that all nations will blessed in him (gospel and salvation blessings in Christ, according to Galatians 3:8). In the context of Genesis 12, the “nations” specifically included Cush, which is listed first among other nations in Africa in Genesis 10:5-6, and 13. In Psalm 68 there is a prophecy that along with gifts from foreign kings (v. 29) and envoys from Egypt, the nation of Ethiopia or Cush will soon or quickly stretch out her hands to God (v. 31, image of submission and worship). One translation says Ethiopia will “voluntarily offer tribute to God.” Psalm 87:4 further includes Ethiopia among nations who know God (or will come to know God, if taken prophetically). The text seems to describe believers from Ethiopia and other nations as viewed by God as if they were natural-born Israelites.

Amos 9:7 is even more striking:‘“Are you not as the sons of Ethiopia to Me, O sons of Israel?” Declares the LORD.’ (NKJV)

In this prophecy the God of Israel seems to be saying that He cares for and has a future plan for the Ethiopians just as He cares for Israel and has a future plan for Israel and the nations (v. 9). Nations besides Israel will be called by Yahweh’s name (v. 12, an expression for special blessings and relationship, especially in regards to salvation). It’s interesting that Amos 9 is quoted in the Jerusalem Council in Acts 15 as demonstrating that God bringing Gentiles into the church equally with Jews fits with OT prophecy.

Ezekiel 38 lists Ethiopia (v. 5) in the context of nations who will come to know that the Lord is Yahweh (LORD, v. 23). Isaiah 18 is addressed to the land deeper in Africa beyond the rivers of Ethiopia or Cush (v. 1), a people tall and known for their smooth skin (something that stood out to me), a powerful nation feared by others (v. 2). Isaiah speaks of a time after God’s judgment in Isa. 18:7: “At that time a gift of homage will be brought to the LORD of hosts From a people tall and smooth, Even from a people feared far and wide, A powerful and oppressive nation [one translation says “of strange speech”] Whose land the rivers divide— To the place of the name of the LORD of hosts, even Mount Zion.

Some might argue that began to take place in Bible times, with Ethiopians coming to Zion/Jerusalem to worship like the Ethiopian in Acts 8, but some of the passages seem to go further with a fuller fulfillment still to come. Could it be the explosive recent growth of Christianity in Africa (arguably more than on any continent in any century of history in the rate it is growing there since 1900) is fulfilling prophecy and is part of the fullness of Gentiles/nations God saves before He’s done with Israel and the world (Rom 11:26-27)? Zephaniah 3:8 says when God gathers nations in the end times, it’s not just for judgment on nations, Zephaniah 3:9 says “For then I will restore to the peoples a pure language, That they all may call on the name of the LORD, To serve Him with one accord [NIV “shoulder-to-shoulder”]. 10 From beyond the rivers of Ethiopia My worshipers …”

From the heart of Africa, south of Ethiopia (including Congo?) worshippers will call on the name of the true Lord, and we get to meet some of them! May the Lord haste that day when worshippers from Ethiopia, Sudan, Congo, and beyond and every nation are worshipping the Lord shoulder-to-shoulder with us and all God’s multi-ethnic family singing, “salvation belongs to our God and to the Lamb” (Revelation 7:9-10)! I look forward to worshipping with some of my African brothers and sisters in Christ very soon! I hope this encourages and excites some of you as it has blessed my heart.