Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Observations from Kinshasa with my newest “kin”

Earlier I said Kinshasa was a lot like Manila, Philippines, where I spent many years. There are some differences, though.



It seems hotter than I remember Manila (the Greene’s said it was good I didn’t come in the super-hot season, which isn’t set to start for a few more weeks)



They have more brown-outs than Manila here and longer times without power. The electricity in various parts of the city is actually off more than it is on, in the few days I’ve been here. Rather than describing it as frequent extended power outages, it would be more accurate to say there is occasional occurrences of the power coming back on. While we had power last night I slept with shorts and no shirt and a fan blowing straight on me the entire night on medium-high, and I never needed a sheet. When the power went out, I awoke in a pool of sweat right away. Thankfully the Greene’s turned on their generator in the middle of the night and I was able to fall back asleep with the fan blasting me. I am so thankful that the guest house I’m staying in down-town the rest of the time has a generator, too, to help us stay cool.



The traffic actually seems worse than Manila, which is saying a lot. The police don’t have guns or cars but I do see them literally beating cars with clubs and leaving dents on them when a car does something it shouldn’t. So rather than paying money for tickets, you end up paying for repairing your car, I guess. At one chaotic intersection with what seemed like 8 roads diverging, I counted 12 cops on foot, whistling, barking, and occasionally denting cars. It’s quite the scene.



The river around town reminds me of Willy Wonka’s Chocolate Factory (only there’s nothing sweet about this river, another similarity to Manila’s river through town)




I am borrowing below observations from my friend Stuart’s blog of his time in Kinshasa when adopting Jamie and Jordan (his wife Jennifer has been the one posting our blogs while my wife was out of country with me)



Some common sights on Kinshasa roads:



- three people on a motorcycle (no helmets, Didier says sometimes there are four)

many people pushing a broken down taxi van (today I told Didier to make sure he didn’t take the kind of taxi van that you have to get out and push)

- cars without mufflers

- cars going the “wrong way”

- cars making a new lane in a very tight space [and up to 5 lanes in what we would consider 2 lanes]

- people standing on the back of taxi vans and holding on

- people hanging out of vehicles in various ways.



The traffic here is insane. Most roads are worn away, so there no lane markings. You may think you’re in the right lane, but then someone squeezes by you on the right. Or you just may decide to drive a bit toward the left, between two cars coming toward you if it is very crowded and you see an opening. Our driver has been good, and I’m not too worried, but I have been praying for our safety while we drive.



A couple of days ago, I described to Didier and Diyoyo the game of “chicken” with two cars driving toward each other, and told them that Kinshasa is a giant game of chicken. They were very amused and even laughing about it later when we were in heavy traffic.



I began to feel weary of Kinshasa. The smog is the only thing that has bothered me a lot here before today. I think the excitement and novelty has mostly worn off. I really wanted to see Kinshasa, but I think I’ve seen enough! Didier and are ready to go back.



Didier has told me some horrible stories. The level of perversion and corruption here is very bad. Satan is very much at work here because people have given themselves over to every kind of evil, but God is with us in the midst of it and there are still many of his people here. If it were not for his grace, given similar conditions, all of us could reach this level of depravity. We need to thank Christ for saving us from it.



[Below is Stuart’s recap of his time with the Greenes]



We talked about a lot of things. Mike told us about his ministry. He started in the late ‘90s when he first came. A group of boys were begging at a gas station, and he decided to offer them bread if they would first let him read them a bible story. This has grown and I think he said he gets ~100 boys now from all around, and they also play soccer now at his house. It’s a great way to serve here and opens up a way to teach them the gospel.



Bethany told me about her family and the other missionary families that live by them. I also learned about their church (a Congolese church), how they eat and get around …



They rent a home with a large yard. Out in the yard by the house they have a 2 story scaffold set up and tied to a tree. A rope swing on a nearby tree can be used from there. I climbed the scaffold to enjoy the view, but did not take up the offer to swing. It looked fun, but I’m a responsible, sensible father.



The youngest Green, Joey, showed me his lego collection. He’s quite a Star Wars fan and had made a very clever version of Jar Jar Binks. He also likes to draw, and I really enjoyed his artwork of a cartoon character superhero, Ben-10 (I think that’s his name).



The Greenes were very gracious and helpful with the girls—I needed it. [I would add the same for “the boy” – what a blessing to be with them and the other missionaries]



(Back to Phil)

Praise the Lord! I now have my duffel bag, and it appears everything is still in it! Praise the Lord also that a wonderful Christian man named Paul who speaks English very well has agreed to be my escort and translator as much as I need him tomorrow. This is a huge answer to prayer, as all the missionaries (especially the moms) were very concerned for me being without an English-speaking Congolese escort downtown. Please pray for me tomorrow, a very big day:

#1 Priority: passport for Matteus done

#2: hospital medical exam done same day required for exit visa

#3 (if we have time): purchase return ticket to Lubumbashi for next week, if possible, on a different airline than CAA (I learned there were many missing their luggage, not just me, and Didier said last time he flew on CAA, he didn’t have his luggage for 4 days either)

6 comments:

  1. We'll be praying for the passport as well as the visa physical exam to be accomplished without any hitches tomorrow. (This Mom is also thankful you'll have a Christian Congolese escort!) We'll also pray for wisdom as you purchase your return flight to Lumbumbashi. We love you son! Can't wait to meet Matteus! Take care. Love, Mom

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  2. That's funny about hitting the cars! So great that you could stay w/the Greenes. Will be praying for your requests.

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  3. We are praying for your safety and that God continues to provide and protect as you come near to the end of your journey! We are anxious to meet Matteus and are grateful to see all the ways God has been working there. The Greene's hospitality and the English speaker willing to escort you are truly blessings and God's sweet provision! Thank you for sharing with us the things God is doing to deliver Matteus to his family in California, this is an amazing story only God could write!
    ~the Riepes

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  4. Wow! Praising and thanking God for this amazing experience and testimony of His sovereign grace in every detail! We are so blessed to pray for you all! And look forward to what God's going to do next :)
    Love,
    the Urbani's

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  5. Following this blog is one of the highlights of our day!! We serve an amazing God and experience such joy when we are in the center of His manifold grace. Matteus is adorable!!! Can't wait to meet him and introduce him to his new friend Isaac! Praying for all the details...God is always in the details. -the Kientz family

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  6. We continue to pray and miss our Pastor....
    We so look forward to meeting Matteus.

    We are celebrating Matteus' adoption, Monday 6:30-8PM at Gold Country Baptist Church. Jaime thought it best to celebrate before you arrive home (to many people for Matteus to soon) and then open your 'gifts of love' when your family is all together!

    I'll attach the invitation in case God chooses to bring you home sooner.....:-) or for any ladies reading this blog that are able to join the celebration!
    Praying for you and Matteus,
    Linda (for the Cains)
    Psalm 5:3 "In the morning O Lord, you hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before you and wait in expectation."


    If you are a lady or daughter...
    You are invited Monday PM to a celebration for our Pastor and their family's newly adopted son from Congo:
    (Phil & Jaime Layton)

    Welcome Home Matteus Layton Celebration!
    Monday October 17th
    6:30-8:00pm
    Dessert and Coffee Celebration
    Gold Country Baptist Church

    All Ladies (daughters too) Invited
    Please bring a small dessert to share
    (if your day gets busy and you don't have a dessert just come...there is always plenty!)

    Let's shower the Layton Family with love!
    Some practical ideas for gifts may include:
    'Bunk Bed Fund' (There will be a basket for cards)
    Gift Cards to: Target, Costco, Grocery Stores (Safeway or Food 4 Less)
    Boys Clothing - Sizes 18 months to 5T

    You will have the opportunity to hear Jaime share about God's blessing in their adoption journey.
    Jaime has requested that we have the celebration before Phil & Matteus arrive home, large crowds will overwhelm him, as he is adjusting.
    We look forward to you joining us as we rejoice with this precious family.

    Contact Linda Cain for additional information or to help: cainmusic4u@gmail.com
    Please feel free to forward this email to others!

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